Hypnotherapy and Sexuality
Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
~ Oscar Wilde ~
Sexuality is complex and is often a charged issue that is not isolated from other life issues. Like snowflakes, each of us is unique including who we are as sexual beings. You may be someone who is questioning; someone who wants to know more about your authentic sexual nature and how it fits into your life, your relationships, and your community. As an experienced sex-positive advocate and educator, I offer non-judgmental, accurate information on many aspects of human sexuality. You may be ready to explore coming out of your own personal closet, have questions about sex and intimacy, sexual healing, fetishes, BDSM practices, gender play, gender orientation, polyamory or any of a myriad of other sexual topics.
Additionally, whether you are involved in what might be considered alternative sexual activities, you may at times feel embarrassment, shame, guilt, or other forms of emotional distress and confusion. Feelings such as these are not unusual, and may arise from individual concerns, relationship challenges or societal or familial disapproval. In all these instances, sex-positive education and support is helpful. I offer a safe place to talk openly about these issues.
Hypnotherapy, Sexuality and Vision Quests
Ventures into the subconscious, a basic "vision quest" trance, can be used to explore various questions and concerns on a deeper, more thorough level than can be accessed through the conscious mind alone, including questions around sexuality. For example, if you are in transition, you may want to feel clearer and more powerful in your gender identity. Perhaps you want to become more fluid and expansive in your gender role. (It is often said that the subconscious is a gender free zone!) If you are creating a dominant or submissive play persona, vision questing offers an excellent way to explore the source of your power. For people who are dissatisfied with limiting beliefs, confusion or ambivalence around exploring their sexuality in new, sex-positive ways, this kind of trance journey can be very empowering.
If you yourself are a tantric practitioner, you may want to deepen and enhance the "Divine Feminine" or "Divine Masculine" within yourself and explore how it interfaces with those with whom you share that sexual intimacy.